The art of seduction begins with building rapport. It’s so important because it builds up her trust and confidence in you. When it is done properly, she becomes sold on you, making seduction simple. If it is not done properly, you can say “adios ” to her as she heads out the door. Rapport is the cornerstone of the art of seduction.
The reason building rapport is so important is because it:
- breaks down her barriers
- makes her feel at ease
- gets her to feel comfortable with you
- opens the door for seduction
If you fail to build rapport you will not stand a snowball’s chance in hell of seducing her. She will not trust you. She will be suspicious of you and she will not have confidence in you. Without rapport, the art of seduction becomes impossible.
Three simple tricks to build rapport
So, without any further ado, here are three simple tricks you can use to build rapport.
1. Get her laughing
For some guys, this is simple, for others it is not. 
If you have a hard time “being funny” then look up some humorous lines online that you can use in your conversation and them try them out the next time you meet someone. Play around with testing different lines on women you meet and have some fun with it.
Always remember that your main objective is to have fun. Play with her, even tease her and have fun. The more you do this, the easier it will be to get her laughing.
2. Talk about her interests
A bore talks about himself while an interesting person talks about the interests of the person they are talking to. Try to talk about what interests her and avoid talking about yourself unless she asks you direct questions about you. You can tell her a funny or interesting story about yourself if it gets her laughing or is extremely interesting to her, bu for the most part, you should avoid talking about yourself.
Be observant – look at what she wearing, her jewelry, her accessories (purse etc.) and see if there is anything that stands out that may indicate what her interests are. Most women like to display their interests. It could be an unusual button that she is wearing which you could ask her about. This would be a great way to keep a conversation going and keep her interest up.
Also, don’t be afraid to ask her about what she likes and what her interests are. Don’t play 20 questions with her but rather try to innocently work the questions into the conversation. Most people absolutely LOVE to talk about themselves, so it should be pretty easy to get her talking about her interests.
Once you find out what her interests are, expand on them and talk to her about them. Try to relate to them as much as you can.
3. Use emulation
This is a really cool “dark persuasion” technique which works at a subconscious level.
What you want to do is basically emulate her mannerisms. Everything from her breathing to her gestures to her way of speaking.
Note how she breathes and try to match it. Breathe in and out as she does. Match the cadence and depth of her breathing.
Observe her gestures and try to use similar gestures. Don’t automatically imitate her gestures right when she does them, just use similar gestures throughout the course of your conversation.
Talk like she talks. Use similar expressions. Don’t imitate her just use similar speech patterns and phrases. If she doesn’t use profanity, you definitely should not. If she speaks more formally you should to. If she speaks informally using a lot of slang terms, so should you.
Like I said, this is a dark persuasion technique. It is the type of thing that, when done properly, will get her to feel a real deep connection to you. An irresistible bond that she can’t even explain, she just feels it. She will just naturally like you and want to be around you all the time.
Take it to the next level
There are three basic steps to the art of seduction: Approaching her, building rapport and eventually seducing her. All of this depends on one thing…confidence. If you do not have confidence in yourself she will sense it and you can forget about seducing her.
The good news is, there is a way to build ULTRA confidence in yourself. It does not matter if you are fat, ugly or bald. Confidence is what women crave. If you can show her that confidence you will be highly successful at seducing women.
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