Are you struggling when it comes to finding, meeting, and picking up women? If so, here are some guidelines to help you succeed in finding the women of your dreams!
Are you looking to start picking up women, but clueless about where to start?
Most of your friends probably don’t know how to pick up women. Your dad probably doesn’t know (and lord knows your mom couldn’t tell you)! Even the dating “experts” that you see in the media wouldn’t be able to give you the proper tactics on how to pick up women, because if they did – they’d never be able to appear on TV again! (Let’s face it, the mainstream media is extremely feminist and looks down upon anything that could help guys get laid!).
Understand: Learning how to pick up women is not a politically-correct topic!
You want some practical advice that can really work, that you can start to use right away. Fortunately, you found this article. So let’s get started!
First off – here’s what you DON’T need to pick up women.
You DON’T need to be “male model” good looking.
This is a huge mistake that almost all men make. Little do they realize that close to 85% of women place more importance on how a man makes them FEEL as opposed to how he actually LOOKS.
So if you don’t think you’re a good looking guy, fear not! You’re not out of the game yet.
Next, you DON’T have to drive a fancy car, or spend a lot of money!
Some of the best pick up artists I’ve ever met never spend more than $30 when on a date, and many of them didn’t even own a car! (And if they did, it wasn’t a very nice one!)
You’ll find that women can be very forgiving when it comes to how much money you make or spend on them, if they LIKE you! And part of picking up women is to get the girl to like you, right?
Finally, you DON’T have to be famous, be a certain type of ethnicity or nationality, or anything else you can think of.
Understand: Personality trumps every other obstacle you think you have to getting a girl to like you!
Interacting with women the right way is the only thing that matters.
You may not be able to have phenomenal success with these tactics right away if you’re just starting out. But if you take the time to start applying these tactics and actually learn from your experiences, you’ll find your success with women will dramatically improve.
You’ll want to try and go out as often as you can to talk to women – especially when you’re first starting out. You may be intimidated to go to “high pressure” environments like bars or clubs where it’s difficult to pick up women, but they are great practice grounds for you to hone your skills.
Despite where you choose to go, you need to set aside some time every day to go out and pick up women – you’ll get better the more times you do it!
When you’re first starting, you might not have a whole lot of success with the ladies. But over time, as your experience builds, your confidence will grow. Every success and failure you have is a learning experience meant to make you better at picking up women.
Remember: With Experience Comes MASTERY.
And what you’re doing when you go out to clubs and bars to pick up women is gaining experience!
When you do go out to gain this valuable experience with the ladies, try and look as good as you possibly can!
(Notice I didn’t say “good looking.” I said “look good.” There’s a difference. You can’t control what you look like, but you CAN control your appearance – your hair, your tan, your clothes, etc.)
Dress for success: Wear clothing that fits you, that’s color-coordinated and looks good on you. If you have fashion-conscious friends who can help you pick out a wardrobe (particularly if they’re women), now’s the time to recruit them.
It’s true that you don’t need fancy threads to meet girls, but why not make it easier by wearing nice clothes, why wouldn’t you do it? Besides, looking good will also make you feel more confident!
Always be on the lookout for pickup opportunities. Attractive women are everywhere, and it’s always a bad idea to let an opportunity to meet one of them slip you by!
Finally, its important to remember that a good pick up follows an easy-to-use structure. This means there’s steps you can follow to get a specific result EVERY TIME you go out to meet women.
The structure is:
Find the girl.
Walk up and meet her.
Talk and Gain Rapport.
Build Attraction.
That’s it! Four simple steps. You’ll find that if you’re able to effectively meet women and gain rapport with them, you can build attraction quite easily.
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